How do you equate wanting to be with or loving someone by saying that since they don't do anything nice for you then they don't love or want to be with you? Do you ever think about what have you done that was nice for them? I mean men, when's the last time you said to your woman, hey here's a couple of dollars go get your hair and/or nails done? Not because they asked but BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO?
Ladies trust me I know it gets hectic when you have kids and not only do you forget your own needs but your man's needs. I am guilty of that but it's not because I don't love my man or don't want to be with him. I think that sometimes men tend to forget, that as women but most importantly as mothers we need a minute. And if not given that minute we are no good. You can't give us a minute for a few days then stop. It has to be constant and consistent. We can't have date night once or twice and then stop. That's a way to re-connect and remember why you are with that person whether or not you do go out. You men may get upset with us women and then that's your cue to stop giving us the minute and/or stop date night.
Some men tend to say well what about me? Why don't you do this or do that? Do you ever think about what is it that I'm not doing for my lady that could make her wanna jump on top of me, give me some head? Or what did I do in the beginning of our relationship that I no longer do? In relationships we are supposed to feed off of each other. They say actions speak louder than words but sometimes our actions turn our partners off. It works both ways.
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