The Vaginal Orgasm

Here's the 2nd type of orgasm that us women should have already experienced in our sexual sex life so far.

The Vaginal Orgasm:

This kind of female orgasm begins in the vagina and either stays focused in the pelvic and lower stomach areas, or spreads from there. The uterus, pelvic muscles, and even anus may begin to contract during this orgasm. Those contractions are quite strong and may actually push out anything that was stimulating the vagina. This kind of orgasm takes longer to achieve (it takes a woman on average 20-25 mins to achieve this kind of orgasm) Rhythmic thrusting is often the best way to get her there, a good lover will communicate with his woman and find out the best position for her to reach it.

Clitoral Orgasm

This is the first and most common orgasm. I think most of us women can say that we have at some point experienced this type of orgasm.

Below is the definition and how it can be given and how it feels.

The Clitoral Orgasm:

This orgasm is the most common and is the result of clitoral stimulation. Intensely pleasurable feelings start within the clitoris and send waves of pleasure throughout the body.The clitoris is the most sensitive area on the female body, being one of the most nerve rich. If you are a guy, imagine ALL the nerve endings in the penis poured into one small area about the size of a pea.The clitoris is so important to receiving pleasure that sexual arousal is always felt there on some level. That is why the clitoris is so responsive to certain kinds of touch.


This kind of female orgasm can be given:

Orally.
Fingers: masturbation

How does this orgasm feel to a woman ?

A clitoral orgasm can be very intense, but many women describe it as “less deep” than others. Nevertheless, it is extremely pleasurable, and good clitoral stimulation adds a lot to your sex life and helps her “warm up” and prepare for penetration.

Orgasms

So I as prepare to do another draft of my next book I did a little research. Come to find out there are 11 types of orgasms that us women can experience. Apparently I've only experienced 3 in my sexual lifetime.

Now with that being said for the next 11 days I will blog about these orgasms. This is just a little note to inform you. I'm not even gonna name them in this blog, the next 11 blog titles will be the type of orgasm. But ladies could you believe that 11 orgasms?

Yes my next book will include these orgasms. Next book is going to be as erotic as I can possibly get and short stories. One character and her sexual experience as told by her and another. Hmmm now who is the other? All the more reason for you to anticipate and want to get the book.

Interior Writing Conversation

"Now where should I begin?"

"Let's see. Maybe I should get organized first then figure out what to write."

"No wait let me check my email first, then Facebook and then I will write."

Now that that is done, let me figure out if I want to work on The Tales or Dreamlover."

"No I will blog which will get my juices flowing then I will write."

"Oh I have an idea for something to work on next, so let me write down that idea then work on whatever it is that I'm going to work on."

"You know what I'm gonna sleep on it and see what the dream says to work on as far as novels go. So I'm gonna work on this script and tomorrow I will work on whichever novel comes to me in my dream. Yeah that makes sense to me."

I then go through the flash drives to see what is on what and which one has nothing on it.


This is the above interior conversation I have before I begin to work on something that I am writing. This just so happens to be a night time interior writing conversation. 642 Things To Write About...

I Don't Know What You Take Me For

I don't know what you take me for but I'm no fool. You can't just tell me anything and expect me to believe what you say. I need you to back up your talk with some action. I need for you to be about it, you know?! I can be a little on the crazy side but not that crazy. I don't know what you expect from me but you may not get a response but a look. A look says a lot, especially from me. Could be good and well it could mean for you to get the heck up out my face.

I don't know what you take me for but I'm always down for some fun. Even though I am the mother of two, every now and then I like to have a little fun. I do have one limitation, make sure the weather is nice because I can't stand the cold. I like meeting new people. I'm not timid but at times I can be a little shy but once I get comfortable in any given environment, I can be a hoot(lol).

I'm far from mean and the nicest person you can meet. I'm caring and giving but just don't take advantage of that. I'm a friend until I can't be anymore. What determines the end of my friendship? I like the three strike rule. After your first two strikes you have to play it right but after that third strike, I'm done and the friendship is over. How do you know it's over? When I no longer pick up the phone when you call or just don't return your calls. If you see me, I will say hello and keep on moving.

I don't know what you take me for but hey I know who I am and that's all that matters.




*642 Things To Write About....I had to put my iPod on shuffle and write down the line of the first song that comes on, and use it as an opening line. The song, This Is 50 by 50 Cent off The Massacre, the first line, "I don't know what you take me for.....

Third Person

When you see Arnittress there are two questions that come to mind. The first, is/has she ever modeled and the second, did she or does she play basketball? You would ask her those two questions because she is very tall and slim. She is about six feet tall and again slim. Arnittress is one of those people who can eat anything and not put on a pound. Arnittress is a caramel complexion with a round face, big brown eyes. She has short reddish brown hair, closely shaven in the back and gets longer as you go to the front.

Her attitude well, she's a sweet smart-ass. Arnittress doesn't mean to be sarcastic it's just something that comes with ease. When it comes to family and friends as much as she would love to say no to them, she doesn't. She's there with a shoulder ready to cry on and a ear ready to listen. Arnittress takes the word 'friendship' very seriously. She's like the Chucky doll, she's a friend to the very end.

Arnittress is Arnittress, you either love her or like her.


642 Things To Write About.....Describe me in 3rd person..

What A Day

Today was one of those days. It started off going good but then took a turn for the not so good. Today is the day that I grocery shop. Today would have been the first day that I see how this day all works out with an appointment scheduled in but it didn't go that way.

My five year old gets on the bus at 7;43 and my three year old has to be at daycare at 9, no earlier. My oldest normally likes to walk to the bus-stop and cried when I told him to get into the car. Good thing because by the time we made it down the street, it began to rain. As soon as I parked the car, the bus was coming down the hill. I put him on the bus and got back into the car. When I do the grocery shopping I normally go to Target and then Costco. The three year old and I made it to Target before it opened and by this time it was pouring. When the doors opened at 8, we were in and out by 8:30. After I put my three year old in the car and the groceries in the trunk, we were off to drop him off and he was on time and the rain stopped. I then went home to put away the groceries and get ready for a 10:00 appointment.

At exactly 9:45, the home phone rings and I see that it is my five year olds school. I answer and I have bring another set of clothes. I get into my car and speed to his school. I call my appointment and tell them that I am running five to ten minutes late. It wasn't going to be a problem since I had until fifteen after the hour to get there. I leave the car running and run inside the school to the office to give them the change of clothes. My lil guy is in the office crying and I find out that there is more to the story. I change his clothes and sign him out. He would have been getting ready to get on the bus anyway so.....

By the time we get in the car and get moving the rain starts again along with some wind. He and I head to Costco and we are in and out. I have to make another run to Target. We get home and I put away the things that we picked up at Costco. When that's all done, we go to pick up the three year old who always seems to want a donut when we pick him up. There was no rain going but on the way home there was a whole lot of rain coming down. I notice that on the ride home it is very quiet in the back. The first stop light, I turn to see that they are both asleep.

When we get home the rain is coming down hard so we sit in the car until the rain eases up. Well they sleep and I check out videos and status updates on my Facebook newsfeed. The rain finally eases up and it's pure hell trying to wake them up and get them out of the car but I do. We get inside, I make them their lunch, do a load of laundry and clean up a mess that they made, make sure the five year old does his homework correctly. Try to relax but never do.

And to top it all off, today began "that time of the month" for me so you know momma wasn't really feeling this day at all. Oh what a freakin day!!!

A Beginner's Guide To Skipping Out Of Work

Now there have been days when you haven't worked and the day was such a beautiful day and you probably did whatever it was that you wanted to. I'm also sure that there were days when you were unemployed and wanted to sleep in and you did. Now you are employed and can't enjoy the beautiful day and can't sleep in, so what do you do? Here are a few tips that may work in your favor if you execute them correctly.

Let's say that you have a friend who has the day off and wants to go into the city(you don't work in the city) and wants to you to go with her. It's going to be a lovely day and she has it all planned out, a little shopping, pampering and topped off with dinner and drinks.
1. You get to work an hour early on that day looking crazy, like you were up all night. When a co-worker/boss asks you what's wrong you simply say that a relative stayed over and was very sick and you were up all night cleaning vomit. It was early you decided to get dressed and come in since they seemed to be okay but you told them to call you just in case they needed you.

2. An hour-hour and a half after you are supposed to be at work, pick up your cellphone(make sure it is off) and frantically grab your things. Say things like "ok, are you sure? you need me to take you?" make it believable. Run into your bosses office or whoever's in charge and tell them about your sick relative again and you will call when you get to the HOSPITAL. An hour after you leave and every hour after until it's time for you to get off but by then someone should have already said, "we will see you tomorrow" but if they haven't, give your job a call, you are still in the hospital.

For the day that you are at work and you are extremely tired. The one thing that works without a doubt, a migraine.
1. If you have a dark pair of sunglasses put them on, every now and then put your head down.

2. Go to the break-room if you have one and cut the lights out and when someone walks in and they ask what's wrong, tell them you have a migraine and the lights are hurting your eyes. A few tears make it even better.

3. Return to your desk, close the blinds if you sit next to a window, still wearing your shades, every now and then put your head down. If there is someone at your job that knows what a migraine feels like, they will encourage you to go home.

Again these will only work if they are executed correctly.

Another one from the 642 things to write about.

Word of the Day

Andy couldn't believe that he was now in this position. For many years he had seen his father fight for change, he was there by his father's side fighting for what was right. As a teenager he knew that when he went to college his major was going to be Political Science. He knew that one day he was going to be just like his father. The day finally came.

As his campaign party entered the room he didn't know what to expect. As he stood at the podium and looked around, some of the faces were new and some were old. The one face that was the most familiar was his father's. His father gave him the it's going to be just fine, so relax smile. Once everyone was seated and their attention was on him, he began.

"I would like to thank everyone in here. I know some of you and I look forward to getting to know those who I don't know. The next few months are going to be tough but if we stick together and fight for what's right not only for the community but our town, I believe that we can win this election together. I am aware that we are still having problems in our school district so that is going to be our first concern. Our second concern is bringing the community together so that we can work together." He saw that someone had their hand raised. "Yes, sir you have a question?"

"Are you going to be your father's redux?"

"Why would you ask that?"

"Because those were the same things that he was fighting for."

"I don't take anything away from my father but I am not his redux. He fought for change and now I am fighting for improvement. There's difference and once we begin campaigning you well see the difference between my father and I. Also I have my own identity and my own voice."


Another one from 642 Things to write about. Today's was write a story using today's word of the day which was, Redux: brought back..

Another Year

These last few weeks have been very busy. I've gotten to things that I wanted to do as well as help others get what they need done. Now I am back on my grind to get where I need to be. Technically the New Year begins on Jan 1, my New Year begins on Nov. 14. Yes that is my birthday and I always try to set a goal on that day for the following year. It's really a New Year for me since I am another year wiser and I've become better at something.

So for this coming year I have a goal set and I am determined to accomplish this goal. I will share the process of completing this goal and of course the outcome.

These last few weeks I will prepare and since my birthday falls on a Friday, most likely I will be enjoying the weekend relaxing or even writing my New Year Resolution. Who knows but for the time being, I get ready and get prepared.

What Should I Do?

What should I do?
Should I continue to wallow
in complete sorrow?
Should I take that chance
and have a second glance?
Should I continue to
love you and still feel blue?
Should I complete this chapter
of you and take on anew?
Should I change my life
and be that trife?
Please tell me what should I do?
Should I end my sorrow and
still take that chance without having
a second glance?
Should I stop loving you
and never feel blue?
Should I still complete this
chapter of you
and still take on anew?
Should I keep my life
and never be trife?
Please tell me what should I do?

What Do You See?

Look into my eyes
Honestly tell me, what you see?
Are you looking deep?
Am I someone you can keep?

Look into my eyes
Honestly tell me what you see?
Do you see someone who can be
Mistaken for a fool?
Do you see someone who can
honestly love you and only you?
Or do you see someone who will

Hurt your heart and run?
Do you see someone who is going to be
there thru good and bad times?
Do you see someone who’ll just leave
when things get bad?

Look into my eyes
Honestly tell me what you see?

New Book

I've been so motivated as a writer that I am thirteen chapters into my next book. I get these spurts and I write and can't stop. When writing I hand write then I type so that's a whole lot of writing that I've been doing. As I continue to write I change things and then have to go back and change something in a previous chapter. I orginally started in order but now I find my self starting a new chapter without having it numbered yet because I don't know which number it's going to be. I'm somewhere in the middle working backwards and then I will have to go forward to get to then end. Well actually I think that the end is coming in my head now. So on that note let me doing something that's gonna help me get the writing juices flowing. And that would be cleaning up my kids mess so that I cansit in peace and write for a litte bit.

The Scene

As Lynn and Jen sat on the bench in the park they couldn't help but to notice all of the joggers jogging, mothers pushing strollers speed walking and couples holding hands strolling through the park. Lynn then spotted a nicely tanned man who could have been between 6'2"-6'4". He had faux Mohawk, shirtless and a well defined six pack. Lynn could see the sweat glisten on his body as he got closer. Jen saw the look on Lynn's face and then turned to see what she was looking at.

"Umm?" Said Jen.

"Uh-huh and mm-mmm." Replied Lynn.

"Urrrr urrrr urrrr urrrr."

"Uh-huh."

He stopped in front of them.

"Urrr ummm." Jen said to the sweaty man.

"Mm-mmm." He said locking eyes with Jen.

"Ummm, uh-huh." Lynn said.

"Um uh-huh urrr." He said to her. He took a seat in between them and leaned down to tie his sneaker. Lynn and Jen looked at each other smiling. "So uh-huh um urrr mm-mmm."

"Uh-huh." Lynn quickly said.

"Ummmm uh-huh mm-mmm." Said Jen.

He took off his arm band and pulled out his cell phone and turned to Jen so that he could get her number. "Mm-mmm uh-huh."

"Mmm mm mm um um um um."

"Mm-mmm, urr uh-huh." He got up and jogged off.


*This is from my book of 642 Things to Write About. This was my scene and I could only use "Um, Uh-huh, Urrr and Mm-mmm" for my dialogue.

The Eye

About a week ago I was doing the laundry and at some point something got into my left eye. It started to itch and water and it wouldn't stop. That night I went to bed and as I sleep it "leaked". When I woke up the next morning I couldn't open up my left eye. It was closed shut. A warm wash cloth was used to get it open. I went to the doctor it was some type of pink eye(non contagious). So as the week progresses my eye is getting back to normal. Now exactly one week after I get "pink eye" I scratch the cornea in the same eye. Yes, I scratched the cornea.

I was with my mom and my boys and we were headed to my great niece's birthday party. My mom drove. As soon as we get on the road I feel something in my eye. I look in the mirror and see that I have an eyelash in my eye. Naturally I pull my top eyelid over my eye hoping that that would do the trick. No. I had to go in my self. After removing the eyelash, it still feels as though there's something still in my eye. I rub and rub and rub. Nothing. I wet a paper towel and put it to my eye. Nothing. I try Visine and that doesn't work either. It gets to a point to where when I blink my eye won't open. I actually have to lift my eyelid in order to open my eye. We leave the party fifteen minutes after we get there.

The first Urgent Care closed at 3. My mom got me to one closer to home and we made it just in time. The doctor draws me a picture of the eye and shows me how I scratched my cornea. Only me. He gives me a prescription and the first CVS we go to, the pharmacy is closed. We make it to one that is open and I get the prescription filled.

Every three hours since Saturday evening I put one drop of the eye drop medicine in my eye. It's getting better but at night I can see but really can't see crap. The eye is truly delicate.

642 Things To Write About

I just recently got a book called, 642 Things To Write About. The title alone tells you what the book is about. It's more like a journal and one each page there is either one or four topics to write about. Along with writing in the journal, I'll be sharing my little stories here. So if you are wondering why I'm writing about something so crazy or out of the blue, now you know. The crazy stories begin tomorrow. So until then....

Rain

RAIN

Every drop that falls
makes me think of you and all
that we’ve been through.
The good and the bad.
A different drop falls
A different story told.

Rain

It’s always perfect for
when you cry.
Tears and rain mixed
together,
what a beautiful treasure.
To go out and make sweet
Love in

Rain

Brings both pleasure and pain.

Rain

I see your face in
every drop
makes my heart stop.

Rain

A different story in
every drop.

If

If I couldn’t love you now,
would you hate me later?

If today never comes,
would you still show me a brighter tomorrow?

If I never say hello,
would you ever say good-bye?

Chances

Ever had a moment you wish that
you could go back to?
I have, I had the chance to care but didn’t.
Had the chance to comfort but couldn’t.
If given that chance back
I would care and comfort.

Ever has a moment you wish that
you could go back to?
I have, I had the chance to hold
but passed it by.
Had the chance to kiss but missed.
Had the chance to love,
but threw it off like a glove.
If given the chance I would
hold, kiss and love.

If given the chance to be alone
with you,
There would be so many things
That I would do.
First I would share my love,
care and comfort you.
Last but not least I would
kiss and do you right.

There have been times when
I’ve had the chance, but never taken it
have I been too scared of not knowing
what may happen?
But if given the chance
I won’t let it pass me by because,
chances are something that
we must all risk and take.

Are You?

Are you ready for my style?
Are you ready for my grace?
Are you ready for my class?
Are you ready for my charm?
Are you ready for my wit?
Are you ready for sarcasm?
Are you ready for my communication?
Are you ready for my smile?
Are you ready for my arms?
Are you ready for my eyes?
Are you ready for my soul?
Are you ready for my sexual appetite?
Are you ready for my love?
Are you ready for me and only me?

Move Forward

Have you ever been so focused on something that you plan and plan and plan but never move forward? I've been like that for the past seven years. Seven years ago my first novel, Dreamtini was published.

When I started to promote it I got pregnant so I had to put everything regarding Dreamtini on hold. I had to get used to motherhood and doing other things for people. Then once I was able to get back on track I got pregnant again. Now I had to get used to being a mother to two boys.

I got back on track again but there was a problem. Problem was too much time had passed and there was no marketing or promoting done for Dreamtini and it didn't make sense to do the follow-up which was completed. I then started working on other manuscripts that I had started to work on when I found the time to write. Then I began to think to my self, how am I going to pay for marketing and promoting? That is when I started my cupcake business. I then realized that I was passionate about two things, writing and baking.

I began planning and planning for two things. I would get started and then I'd stop. I'd get focused and then my vision would get blurry and I'd call my self taking a break trying to re-focus. Now, I'm so focused. I'm so focused that I've created a vision board that I have as screensavers on my cellphone, ipad and laptop. I have no excuse.

I have gotten rid of notebooks and loose papers that I thought served a purpose but they don't. I've narrowed it down to two clipboards, one for writing and the other for my cupcake business. I have set daily and weekly goals for myself which will move me forward to attaining everything on my vision board.

Have you ever been so focused on something that you plan and begin to move forward?

Another Thought

You spend your time time trying
to make others happy,
but do they care if you're even
happy.

You spend your days trying to get
"them" out of your system
yet you're wondering..
were you ever really in their system.

You spend your nites in their arms,
and as you lay there, you think,
is this person here laying in my arms?

You're always honest with a person,
yet you're always wondering if that
person in honest with you.

A Thought

You try to hate someone;
yet,
you wind up loving them
even more.

You try to forget
about a person
but every person you met
reminds you of person you're
trying to forget.

And why does it seem
like,
the more you forgive, you still
don't forget; and,
that person stays
in mind, in sight
and
in your heart?

After so long,
you try to love a new,
just to find out that
the love you had for the
other is still there

That Feeling

It's funny how you just meet a person and you feel safe.
No matter what's going on in your life at that present time,
The presence of this person makes everything alright.
It's not what comes out of their mouth but it's their presence, strange right?!
You may not see this person for a while but when you do,
Still, everything is alright.
Unexpectedly they come along and you don't know what to do or how to act.
You wanna give in but at the same tine you don't.
It's strange because after a long time of hurt and pain,
This is the first time that your heart and mind agree on something.
Normally your heart says one thing and your mind says the other.
Finally your heart and mind agree and still you don't know what to do.
Do you continue "doing you" or do you reveal your "true self"?
What is one to actually do?
You seek outside advice and it's all the same.
Then you come to realize that if you like what you feel, then be honest.
You may not wanna hear what's about to be heard but then again you
Just might.
You'll never know until you try right?
DAMN, That feeling!